It does not mean we are connected when we are friends on social media or if we read and share our stories and interests. It does not mean we are connected when we exchange Whatsapp numbers or we chat accounts. Connection has nothing to do with whether we keep up with each other’s daily news or not. Connection is not fancying someone in secret. Connection is definitely not hugging everyone. I look at #connection on social media platforms and all I see and feel is the desire for intimacy and relationship, but that is not true connection either.
A connection is true only when it has already happened with oneself and it is then simply who we are and how we express with each other.
The reflection of connection we may love, as we know that is who we are and we can choose to be that too; or we may feel resistant towards, as we also know that is who we are but we do not want to be feel the consequences of our own choices.
We can only be truly connected to one another when we first connect and be in relationship with ourselves.